No Pain, No Gain

It was the coldest winter ever. Many animals dies because of the cold. The hedgehogs, realizing the situation, decided to group together to keep warm. This way they covered and protected themselves; but the quills of each one wounded the closest companion. After a while, they decided to distance themselves from each other. Soon, they began to die, alone and frozen.

So they had to make a choice; either accept the quills of their companions, or disappear from the Earth. Wisely, they decided to go back to being together. They learnt to live with the little wounds caused by close relationship each shared with their companions in order to receive the warmth that came from the others.

There's lesson to be learnt from hedgehogs !!!

Yesterday, Today & Tomorrow

There was a seeker who asked a question to his guru, What is Time?" The guru answered, " Yesterday, Today & Tomorrow..." The seeker was disappointed, and said "Is that it?"

Well, listen to this story, if you are not satisfied with the answer I gave you," said the guru.

Once there was Today who wanted to become Always. Yesterday told Today, "I also wanted that when I was you." "Did you ask Always how to do that?" inquired Today. "I asked," replied Yesterday and the answer was "By changing, by becoming Tomorrow from Today." Today thought "That means Always does not belong to itself. It is always someone else's! It means that something is making it do that. But what's that? Yesterday suggested "Is it time?" "What is time?" Today asked. "It is only you, me and also Tomorrow, replied Yesterday.

Another seeker inquired, "But it means that time is that what passes. And that is wrong. It can also last by stopping". The wise man looked at them with curiosity and then smiled. "You are right. Sometimes Today can last a hundred or a thousand years, before it passes. Sometimes it feels like Yesterday has come back and we are living in it. There is a little bit of Tomorrow in Yesterday and Today, but we rarely recognise it.

It turns out that there is only this Trinity.

The Tale of Two Seas

This is a beautiful tale concerning two seas.

If you have ever visited Israel, then you know that Israel has two lakes. The one up in the North is the Kinneret, also known as the sea of Galilee, because it is up in the area called the Galilee. From this lake comes most of the water in the tiny state. The ancient city of Tiberias, located on its shores, is today a flourishing city. Here the delicious St. Peter's fish is caught by the local fishermen and prized as a delicacy. From the Kinneret, the water is purified and pumped into large pipelines that bring the life-giving water to the towns and cities all over the country. The Sea of Galilee is beautiful. It has blue water and is full of fauna and flora. Life exists. Trees line its banks where children splash and play. The Jordan River makes this sea, flowing from the sunny hills. And life is happy and vibrant around this sea.

 

Through the Sea of Galilee, the Jordan River continues to flow south. Into another sea the cool rolling waters flow. Into the Dead Sea. Here there are no fish swimming, no birds flying above, no families sunning near the shoreline. No man or animal will drink the water here. Life does not exist and no one wants to be here.

Every school kid knows that the only water body which in reality is not a sea but ironically called so is the Dead Sea; it is actually a lake. That explains the ‘sea’ part of ‘Dead Sea’. But why is it Dead Sea? Or the Killer Sea? Because there is absolutely no life in it even though it is 67 kms long, 18 kms wide at its widest point, and 1237 feet deep. It is one of the saltiest bodies of water on earth; almost 9 times saltier than normal ocean water. It is this high density of salt which never allows even the slightest hint of marine flora or fauna to survive and flourish. But why is this lake so salty? Quite simple. It never flows out. It receives water from River Jordan but keeps it all to itself. It is so below the mean sea level that there is no outlet. Some amount of water of course gets evaporated leaving the salts behind, and in the process creates the dead, most uninhabitable environment.

One might ask: What makes this enormous difference between these neighboring seas? Could it be the Jordan River? No. The same flowing waters empty into both bodies. It is also not the soil, not the people, not the geography.

So what is the difference?

The Sea of Galilee receives, but does not keep the Jordan. For every drop that flows into, another drop flows out. The Sea of Galilee gives equally as it receives.

But the Dead Sea keeps the Jordan. It has no outlet. Every drop it gets, it keeps. It is not tempted to share and stockpiles its incoming waters aggressively.

There are two seas in Palestine. The Sea of Galilee gives, lives and flourishes. And the Dead Sea keeps everything, shares nothing and is dead.

Which sea best represents you and your life? Which sea do you wish to be like?

The Missing Goat

It all started one lazy Sunday afternoon in a small town near Toronto in Canada.

Two school-going friends had a crazy idea.

They rounded up three goats from the neighborhood and painted the number 1, 2 and 4 on their sides.

That night they let the goats loose inside their school building.

The next morning, when the authorities entered the school, they could smell something was wrong.

They soon saw goat droppings on the stairs and near the entrance and realized that some goats had entered the building.

A search was immediately launched and very soon, the three goats were found.

But the authorities were worried, where was goat No. 3?

They spent the rest of the day looking for goat No.3.

Gradually there was panic and frustration.

The school declared classes off for the students for the rest of the day.

The teachers, helpers, guards, canteen staffs, boys were all busy looking for the goat No. 3, which, of course, was never found.

Simply because it did not exist.
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Those among us who inspite of having a good life are always feeling a "lack of fulfilment" are actually looking for the elusive, missing, non-existent goat No.3.

Whatever the area of complaint or search or dissatisfaction may be - relationship, job-satisfaction, materialistic achievement......an absence of something is always larger than the presence of many other things.

Stop worrying about goat No.3

Not Permanent

When somebody tells me that he has failed in exams, I ask "Is there a law that you will pass every time?"

When somebody tells me "My girlfriend broke up with me", I ask, "Is there a rule that you will have successful relationships always?"

When somebody asks me "Why am I depressed?", my question is "Is it compulsory to have confidence all the time?"

When somebody lamented about his huge business losses as a result of his making wrong business decisions, my question is "Is it possible that you take only the right decision all the time?"

The fact is that our expectation that life has to be perfect or permanent is the biggest reason of our happiness. One has to understand the law of impermanence of nature. After each sunny day, a dark night follows; after each birth, there follows a certain death; for full moon to come again, it has to pass through a no-moon phase. In this imperfection of nature, there is perfection.

Therefore, stop taking your failures personally or intensely. Prepare yourself for one more fight after each fall because even failures cannot be permanent.

Everyone has a Story...

A 24 year old boy seeing out from the train’s window shouted…
“Dad, look the trees are going behind!”

Dad smiled and a young couple sitting nearby, looked at the 24 year old’s childish behavior with pity, suddenly he again exclaimed…
“Dad, look the clouds are running with us!”

The couple couldn’t resist and said to the old man…
“Why don’t you take your son to a good doctor?”

The old man smiled and said…
“I did and we are just coming from the hospital, my son was blind from birth, he just got his eyes today."

Every single person on the planet has a story. Don’t judge people before you truly know them. The truth might surprise you.

Everyone is Improtant

A lonely tree was growing among the hot sands of dead desert. Prickly sands covered the Wood. The Sun mercilessly burned its bark. But the Tree kept on living in spite of all.

Once the Hawk flied over the desert. The Hawk saw the Wood and sat on its branch. He looked around the desert and said:
You are strange Tree, why do you keep on living among these dead hot sands ? Who needs it?
You, — the Tree answered.
Me? — the Hawk was surprised. — I don‘t need you.
But if not me, — the Tree told, — you would have to sit on the hot sand instead of my branches. If not me, someone, seeing you sitting on the tree alone, would say that nobody needs you, too. And would ask you what do you live for. Sitting on my branches you, Hawk, think that I need you.

The Hawk thought about it and had to agree with the Tree. If there was no Tree, the hawk would feel himself alone and useless among this vast desert.